How to remove the "Add to my Foes List"

is this possible?

i just want my forum to have the "Add to my Friends List" and not the other one.

Nopes, thats not possible in my opinion.

Is this possible in javascript?

what forum versions are you guys using?

I am pretty much with Sanket on this, however if it is in the profiles template then it can be removed.

I will have to check, if it is it will only be-able to be done on punbb or phpbb2.
Possibly with css for phpbb3 invision but not sure will have to look and test

I don't think the friends/foes page is in the templates, so javascript would be the only way to do this. As long as you don't have phpBB2, this would be a simple script. If you have phpBB2, you're out of luck.