Help with stats i cant find!!/ Profile background/ Profile Music

Hi im new, well, I like using this, and I'm pretty good at it but on the front of the forum where it says birthdays, statics, and who is online i want a pic next to each. I found only one so i added for birthdays, but i cant find the other two. please help me! thanks!


EDIT: Also I was wondering if somehow i could make it to where people can change their profile background and also add music!