Coffe cup software flash menu builder

Hi I have created a forum here and now have 196 members.
www.fiber.forumotion.com
The customisation of the system is intuitive and easy to use however I seem to be having trouble with the flash menu builder I use from Coffee cup.
I am trying to use the flash menu builder from them but cannot seem to get it to work correctly, my problem is this:
I have built the menu and saved it, I have copied the html code to implement into the html page on the forum which looks like this:

Code:


<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000"
 codebase="http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=8,0,0,0"
 width="625" height="69" id="CC1402935" align="middle">
<param name="movie" value="downloads.swf"/>
<param name="quality" value="high" />
<param name="scale" value="noscale" />
<param name="salign" value="lt" />
<param name="bgcolor" value="#ffffff" />
<embed src="downloads.swf" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="625" height="69"
 name="CoffeeCup" scale="noscale" salign="lt" align="middle" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"
 pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" /></object>

Now there are 5 files I need to upload to the server but not sure where I can upload these to:
SWF, XML, HTML & 2 png pics.
I have tried uploading them to a seperate server I own online, and have changed the "embed src="downloads.swf" parameter to the file on my server, but this is not working either.

So my Question is this, can I do this i.e. do I have to upload direct to my forum server & if so how? or can I add more code to the above to allow it to diplay properly from my own server?
Thanks in advance.
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